Walk into a bar or a club wearing a five inch stiletto heel and you are bound to catch anyone’s attention especially when you wear them with a short skirt or a pair of body hugging killer pants. So, for the night, you spend some time dancing but you are just mostly sitting there, looking sexy and drinking a cocktail. The truth is you just can not dance in your shoes any longer than necessary. High heels are the ultimate tool for attraction and seduction but they are not really the most comfortable things on earth unlike your fuzzy bunny bedroom slippers.
Walking in high heels is an art and to be able to effectively use high heels as a tool for attraction, you have to be able to master this art. Own this art and you can have anyone at your mercy, ready to do your bidding. So, let us start by talking about how much experience you have in walking in high heeled shoes. If you have absolutely no experience, you should not just go and buy a five inch stiletto because you might just break your ankles. Work your way up gradually by first getting kitten heels because these are just usually about half an inch to an inch high. When you get used to them, start getting shoes with higher heels. It is also a good idea to choose chunkier heels rather than going for a pencil thin stiletto. This is to help you with your balance and then you could taper your heels until you finally get around to walking in a stiletto. Once you master that, you can wear any shoe you like.
So, you are thinking of going to this huge party or a really romantic date with such a gorgeous guy and you want to dress to impress and wear stilettos. When you are out shopping for your shoes, consider the venue of the place. It is really not that practical to wear stilettos when you are going on a romantic date at the garden or when you are going to do a lot of walking. You should also think about how long you are going to being walking in them and how long you can tolerate them. Now when you have finally bought a stiletto, remember that you have to take it on a test drive before the big event. You do not want to be losing your balance or that you would keep reaching down and adjusting the straps every five minutes. You want to be sure that you will look good and feel very comfortable in them. Plus, shoes are not created the same so keeping your balance might be different in this pair. Stand around in your bedroom and walk around your house. You might even consider wearing them when you go out and buy groceries, the cart may help you keep your balance.
When you are already out there in your heels, keep your body as straight as you can. Keep your legs together and concentrate on keeping your balance, you can’t just hop around like you do when you are in sneakers. Try to sit as much as possible in order for your feet to rest. When going out at a club or something that will take a long time, keep a pair of flats inside your bag. You never know when you’ll use it but you will always be happy that you did. Walking around barefoot on a sidewalk is never fun.